← Back to resourcesPivotMindra Wellbeing Series

Toolkit Pages

Each module is now on its own dedicated page.

Feelings tracker companion

🚀 Teens: Feelings Are Data, Not Instructions

Feelings give useful information about needs, values, and boundaries. You can feel something strongly and still choose your response.

Big idea: Feel it. Name it. Do not become it.

Try this reframe: I feel anxious right now instead of I am anxious. The feeling is visiting, not moving in permanently.

Advanced feelings vocabulary

FeelingNeed it may point toGrounding reframe
AnxiousNeed for certainty, safety, or controlWhat is one thing I can control next?
ResentfulNeed for fairness or recognitionWhich boundary needs attention?
NumbNeed for rest or emotional safetyWhere can I reduce emotional load?
InsecureNeed for validation or belongingWhat evidence supports my worth?
IrritableNeed for space or unmet expectationWhat pressure can I release now?
MotivatedAlignment with a value or goalWhat action keeps momentum today?
ContentCurrent needs being metHow can I sustain this state?
AshamedFear of not belongingWho is safe to talk to about this?

Teen emotional awareness log

Use this structured log to connect situation, thoughts, body signals, coping strategy, and outcome in one place.

DateSituationFeeling(s)Intensity 1-10Thought behind feelingBody sensationCoping strategyEffectiveness 1-5
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Weekly reflection prompts

  • - What pattern do I notice in what triggers me?
  • - Which coping strategy worked best this week?
  • - What were my feelings trying to tell me about a need or boundary?

Notice to release habit

  • - Step 1: Notice and name the feeling with the tracker.
  • - Step 2: Choose a matching EFT script and tap through one round.
  • - Step 3: Log the after-intensity and what changed.